Institute for family service

Have you ever tried everything in your power to fix something and someone or something keeps tring to break it.
Well, that's what IFS, the Institute for family service, did.
I was trying to fix a marriage that was in trouble and I went there for help. Little did I know that my wife was already having an affair. I tried my best to fix the mariage and get the kids back to a working family. IFS saw this as an opportunity to destroy averything and poison my children against me. Not once did they try to get us together and fix the marriage. They immediately labled me as a batterer and never once did they mention this to me.
I went for several sessions even though I now had a restraining order against me and a dyfs case also. I latter found out that they called dyfs and told my soon-to-be-X that if she didn't get a restraining order against me in 30 minutes they were going to take the kids away. I don't know if this is even possible, but that's what happened. There was no proof or evidence to even suggest that I was this bad person. Just her word alone.
IFS had me come to watch videos of women getting hit and abused and I thought that was strange. They would not discuss what was going on with my family. I kept telling them that I wanted my family back together and they said it would be different. They already knew that my wife filed for divorce even before I knew about it. They kept lying to me and tried to get me to admit that I had done horrible things. They told me that I had to admit all the "bad" things I did in order for the "process" to work. I kept telling them that I did nothing wrong and why are they trying to make me admit to something I didn't do????
They were mad when I told them that they betrayed my trust and lied to me since they knew what was going on and never told me. They never cared about my fears and concerns.
These are a bunch of idiots that had me sit with men that admitted to drinking, doing drugs, and beating their wives/girlfriends. I could not believe that I was in a room with these guys when I never did any of these things.

They told my kids that I was dangerous.
They had my wife go to battered women groups.
They tried to work with DYFS to build a case against me.

Even when I brought in pictures of the house and told them about my wife's affairs it all ment nothing to them. I asked them if there might be a chance that my wife was making this all up because of the divorce. They told me NO.

Good therapy can help.
Bad therapy DESTROYS
NO therapy will ever work if the other party has other plans....

My family has been destroyed by the Institute for Family Services.